He's just not that into you

Not sure if the love advice offered by this book is too absolute in its way of defining the blacks & whites and rights & wrongs in love... but its was definitely a fun read and encourages women who are putting up with their 'half-past-six' relations to kick the bummer's ass and move on to greener pastures...

According to the book, HE's JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU if...

1. He doesn't take the initiative to ask you out (basically you are doing all the work to try and propel the relationship, asking him out and being lovey-dovey, etc.)

2. He doesn't call when he says he's going to (yup, that's the answer most women who are constantly staring at their phones, willing and praying for it to ring should know - he just couldn't be bothered enough with you to realize that you are waiting for his call like a fanatic while he is out galivanting with his friends or that you are just concerned whether he is safe.) Worse still, he doesn't pick up when you call him and doesn't call back when he sees a missed call from you - heck maybe he even said he thinks you call him too much! :(

3. He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you (for good reasons we are sure) - but the fact is he is not sufficiently into you to want to be committed to you.

4. He doesn't want to have sex (self-explanatory) aka he has a fear of intimacy? Unless he's gay and you are into gay men...

5. He is sleeping with somebody else

6. He is not in a position to love you FREELY (THAT IS - He is married and stringing you along for the haul in the mud)

7. He makes you feel less about yourself (He probably has an esteem issue himself and is unable to love himself or other person for that matter - all he wants is to pull you down to where he is by talking you down, bullying or just being obnoxious and insensitive... generally better off dating a bouquet of flowers... at least they look pretty and smell nice)

8. He does not want to marry you or even consider that possibility

9. He is cold, aloof, rude, standoffish to your friends and family

10. He keeps breaking up with you or threatening to break up with you

11. He just DISAPPEARS

It doesn't take a genius to figure out the above, so bite into it and take what you will from it... maybe if you are just in any of the above situations... the book is an added push or a wake-up call to get out of your 'He's not that into YOU' relationship :)